Sometimes, not thinking too much beyond your thoughts are good too. If U overdo it, it can cause either two ways:good or bad to yourself. Sometimes, U wanna think that U can always try to make your own beloved friends happy. But if U try too hard, U cannot feel them whether or not they have problems behind those unhappy looks or feelings. No matter how much U try to ask "why?" U can never force them thoroughly as they might just think U are being an annoying asshole instead of a caring angel/sweetheart.

What I am trying to say is, don't try tooo hard. Cause U might end up hurt yourself more than their own self. So, let them be and be wise if they really need U around even though U need to squeeze out lil' time for them. They will think when is the right time to approach and share. Otherwise, they will just regard yourself as an annoying bitch/asshole.

Done.I have learned a lot on my weekends. thank U